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My profile is updated from Cogan to Tegen. Will and I are each on our second marriage. We were members of the Annapolis Crabtown Ski Club and met playing volley ball 25 years ago. After two years of volley ball and 23 years of marriage, I can honestly say that the " second time around is a charm."
Will is on his second career as a social studies teacher for 8th grade. I left teaching 8th grade math many years ago and have been in the healthcare field for the past 27 years. The last 13 of those are for a Joint Commission accredited Federally Qualified Health Center-Baltimore Medical Systems, Inc. Our health centers provide healthcare for those who are economically challenged in the Baltimore area communities.
We both are looking forward to retiring this year. At 57 years old , it will be an early one for Will but we want to travel more. It will be sad to leave the Annapolis area and the near by areas of DC, Baltimore and the Eastern Shore and all they have to offer, as well as, our dear friends here. Living full time at our second home on Cape Cod has long been a dream of ours. Will loves the Cape as much as I do. Life's pace is much slower there. We have considerable downsizing to do to fit into the smaller Cape Cod style house but we are ready. Hopefully, I will have the opportunity to finally reunite with my childhood friend's and create new experiences for the last chapters of our life.
Will and I attended the 40th reunion and enjoyed the evening with long time specially dear friends as we reminisced and laughed. We are sorry to have missed the 50th but we were attending our nieces wedding in San Francisco. We wished you all an enjoyable weekend of activities and making new memories.
Update August 1, 2015: Will starts his last year of teaching in two weeks. He is putting in for early retirement in June. My long overdue retirement will occur sometime in 2016. We will have this house on the market in the next two weeks after I finish staging it. Renovation on our Cape house is scheduled to start in September; once we meet with the contractor and engineer to finalize the plans.
The plan is to replace the deck with what our contractor calls the Great Room. To me , with all the windows planned, it will be the sun room with a new deck off it along the backside of the house. The kitchen will be renovated and upgraded and the walk out basement will be finished off for a family/guest room area. Eleven pine and maple trees have been removed with 5 more planned to go; this will enable us to have solar panels on the new great room. It will be a relief not to have those tall huge trees swaying over the little cape house during storms. We have been fortunate to have those that fell in the past missing the house. Except one huge one that fell many years ago during a blizzard: It scraped the deck leaving it undamaged but filled with huge branches. We never heard it through the howling wind.
We are excited to soon begin a new chapter in our life. Will doesn't have any idea what his new occupation will be since he is many years away from full retirement. That will fall into place with time. If it is seasonal, that will give us more opportunity to travel for longer periods of time. On my bucket list, is a return trip to Europe; visit the village where Doc Martin is filmed, onto Scotland and Ireland and then to Paris to rent a flat for a month or two. I have been there quite a few times and always wanted to return to explore the city in depth, in the non tourist areas, as well as, the surrounding country side. I didn't make it the last time in Europe; so during the time in Paris, it would be nice to take a few days and return to Bamberg and Frankfurt, Germany where I lived for four years. I wonder how much it has changed after 40 years. Bamberg celebrated its 1000 year anniversary when I lived there. It escaped the war so the old city was quite intact.
Will's bucket list is more to travel the states. He traveled the world extensively with his family during his growing years. When he was 16, he and a friend Euro railed all over Europe for the summer. I convinced Will that he needs to go back for a newer and more mature perspective. Then, we will travel the states. Although, I would like to go to Pernambuco, Brazil. My g-g-g grandfather was the American Consult there , appointed by John Quincy Adams. I would hear family stories of the orange plantation he lived on and the Trading Company of ships he was part owner of. That was an occupation he got into because his wife's grandfather was in the trading business out of Marblehead. My g-g grandfather was born there and a big deal was made by the family that he was American because he was born under the American flag flown over the plantation. G-g grandfather became an importer on Milk Street in Boston until the great Boston fire. No doubt the plantation is long gone but I would like to get a feel of the place and where some of my roots had resided.
Our bucket list begins to grow. Added to that is the Sept, Boston Harbor Cruise reunion; provided the niece who recently graduated college doesn't get married then. It will be interesting to see how it all falls out.
Update April 5, 2016:
It is great to be retired after 55 years in the working world-March 4, 2016. I am a workaholic so it will be a new experience for me to have time to do what ever I want. My BMS family celebrated my thirteen years with them and my retirement by throwing an outstanding party at a fine restaurant in Baltimore's Little Italy. I was emotionally overcome by the awards, endless kudos, expressions of love and gifts through out the program. I was feted the whole week, up until my last day, with luncheon parties hosted by the various committees I led, co-led or participated on. I worked with amazingly dedicated and passionate individuals who make a difference in the lives of our patients. I finally realized that I too made a difference in my journey through life; that is the success that I strived for.
My husband, Will, topped the week off with a surprise party that he couldn't keep a surprise for long. It became a full blown event. I usually prefer to prepare the food myself-my own artistic expression, but it was nice to have it catered; to relax and enjoy the event for a change.
Now, on to a new chapter in our lives. The newest event is that: Will's daughter Elizabeth Carol Tegen, 25 years old, just came into our life. We are thrilled to have her join our family and look forward to getting to know her.
Update Sept. 2018:
Will checked off one item on his bucket list when we joined his sister's family in Hawaii Jan of 2017. They rented a gorgeous, open air, glass three tiered home;
walled on one side with water falls and quoi, in the hills of Ka'ala overlooking Honolulu and Waikiki beach. What a wonderful opportunity to continue to bond with his daughter Elizabeth, who joined us from Annapolis , MD., and for her to meet her extended family. It was not the same place I visited in 1984. I didn't recognize the city or beach through all the sky scrapers. Give me St. Croix anytime, my preference for a tropical experience.
Elizabeth and her boyfriend came later that July to visit the first time in our newly renovated home on Wellfleet, Cape Cod. It has been a joy to have her in our lives and to create lasting memories.
Our next great adventure is to have her join us the end of October when we travel to Bainbridge, Washington to visit Will's sister and to meet his nieces new born twins in Seattle. We plan to take in the sites in Victoria, Canada while there.
The end of March, 2018, it was my turn to check off an item on my bucket list. We toured the United Kingdom; Ireland, England and Scotland, for 16 days. My favorite spot of all was Port Isaac, the site of the Doc Martin series. We spent 3 days just in that area alone touring. Second best was Bamburgh Castle and the town to which one line of my English heritage is linked. Of course the whole trip was fantastic. I had been to Wales and the old Londan before and didn't care to see the modern London with its new sky scrapers and giant Ferris wheel. Will did a fantastic job driving on the left, especially on one lane country roads that were bordered on both side by hedges.